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The Non-Negotiable You Keep Skipping

Sleep deprivation in perimenopause isn't just exhausting. It's making everything else worse.

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Six Months In. Still Spilling.

Six months ago, we hit publish and held our breath.

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It's Maycember. And We're Done Pretending We're Fine.

If you've never heard the term "Maycember," welcome to the club you didn't ask to join.

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We've Been Talking About Grief. Now Let's Talk About Joy.

Can we make a pivot for a second?

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Nobody's Life Turns Out the Way They Planned.

On midlife grief, the twists you didn't see coming, and why that's actually okay.

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The Job Didn't Just End. Part of You Did Too.

On career grief, identity loss, and what nobody tells you about both.

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She Was Fine Without Me. That Was Always the Goal.

And somehow, knowing that makes it harder.

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The Quiet That Midlife Gives You (If You Let It)

Something has been sneaking up on me.

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50 is coming. I have a checklist, a beautiful colon, and absolutely no intention of slowing down.

On empty nests, fresh starts, and what it actually feels like to be almost there.

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The Thing I Was Most Afraid Of (And How Fear Almost Made Me Sicker)

Disclaimer: We are not doctors.

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This Is Your Window. Use It.

What The M Factor 2: Before the Pause taught a room full of women — and what we want every woman to know.

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What 60 Days Taught Us That 25 Years Didn't

Two months ago, we started Spill the Midlife Tea. We thought we were mostly going to talk about hot flashes and brain fog.

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What Are We So Afraid to Talk About?

Almost half the population is missing out on joy. We're done being quiet about it.

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From Knowing to Doing: How to Actually Build Your People

The research is clear. Now here's the part nobody tells you — what to do about it.

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Your People Are Your Medicine

Can we talk about something that doesn't come in a supplement bottle?

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The Longevity Trend Is Everywhere—And For Once, We're Actually Paying Attention

Can we talk about longevity for a second?

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Your Year Isn't Ruined (Even If January Was a Disaster)

Remember just last month!

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Forget the Roses. We're Celebrating the Women Who Actually Show Up

Can we talk about Valentine's Day for a second?

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Saying Yes to New Things

We've been talking a lot about saying no.

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Join our new subscriber chat

A private space for us to converse and connect.

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We Loved Those Years Too (An Appreciation for the Season We're Leaving Behind)

We've been talking a lot about putting ourselves first.

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The Art of Saying No

We've been talking about putting ourselves first.

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Learning to Put Ourselves First (When We've Spent Decades Doing the Opposite)

Even when your kids are older, even when you've left demanding jobs, even when you theoretically have more time.

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Happy New Year: On Letting Go of Superstitions and Trusting Ourselves

Note: While we had planned to post this on the first, life happened.

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7 Signs You're in Perimenopause (That Have Nothing to Do With Hot Flashes)

Let’s be real: if you’re a woman over 40, you’ve probably heard about the “classic” perimenopause symptoms.

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Who Am I Now? (And Other Questions Nobody Warned Us We'd Be Asking)

 It was a walk in the summer—one of our regular neighborhood loops—when everything just... spilled out.

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5 Science-Backed Health Hacks That Cost Nothing (Because We're Done With Instagram's BS)

Can we talk about the noise for a second?

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How Two Midwestern Transplants, A Meet-and-Greet, and a Bone Density Scan Launched This Newsletter

Amy here. Let me tell you about the day I met my newsletter co-founder, though neither of us knew that’s what was happening at the time.

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